Monday, July 31, 2006
Cuts and burns
Friday, July 28, 2006
What a long week
Some news: first, I've posted a picture of Sarah and I from my NYC trip, which can be seen near the end of the "New York State of Mind" post. Thanks for the pics, Sarah! :) Second, it looks like Countrywide (CW) is sick of us, attorney reps, surfing the web and looking bored all day, so they have finally asked that we assist in stacking, which means...fewer (or maybe even no) blogs for awhile. Stacking, mind you, is tedious and is simply making sure that certain legal documents are accounted for and are put in a certain order. I helped stack back when I was with CW Wholesale last year, but I never thought I would have to do it again. Honestly, I would rather leave before my set date of August 18th just to avoid stacking, that's how much I dislike it. But with Dana, the intern, on vacation next week, I basically have no choice but to stay at least another week. Argh! We'll see how long I can stick it out for.
Okay, this post would not be complete without mentioning my thoughts on last night's "So You Think You Can Dance" results show. (Actually, I had already published the post before I remembered that I failed to mention anything about my current favorite show, hence the late mentioning. Oops.) So, I was wrong about the bottom four and terribly wrong about the girl to be voted off...Allison! I can't believe it. As Nigel would say, "America's got it wrong tonight!" Wow, that vote-off was a bit unexpected. Oh, and Travis! Well, good thing he wasn't voted off because it certainly wasn't his time. Stay tuned for next week's thoughts.
Thursday, July 27, 2006
Personalizing the baby room
Okay, about the baby room. I saw some really cute framed letters at the baby store where I bought the diaper bag and I REALLY wanted them, but they were $26.00 per letter! I then saw the same letters on ebay for $14.95 per letter plus shipping. The ones on ebay looked exactly like the store ones, but it got me thinking...I could make them myself. So, today during lunch, I went to Hobby Lobby and bought all the supplies for my lil project. The cost of the entire purchase was less than the cost of one store bought letter! Granted, my letters will not look as good as the other ones and they won't be "framed" nor "scalloped", but at least I can say I did it myself. :)
You're probably wondering where I will put my LYDIA letters since the baby room looks pretty much completed. Well, remember where the Paloma shelves used to be...right above the drawer chest? Well, I'm going to move those shelves right above or close to the changing table (so they don't fall on the baby) and put the "framed" letters in their place. Well, wish me luck!
Tuesday, July 25, 2006
New York State of Mind
Sunday was the big day! About twenty of us headed to Chinatown via the subway for some dim sum. The whole process felt like herding sheep, but it was quite fun and no one got lost. :) After a quick lunch, we all "rushed" back to the hotel to get ready for the wedding. The majority of us arrived on time, but some of the wedding party (parents, a ring bearer, and a flower girl) got lost. So, we lost some time on picture taking, but everything else went fairly smoothly. The venue, New York Botanical Gardens, was very nice and the weather was perfect despite having rained the day before. Cocktail hour was quite enjoyable, with everyone having plenty of time to socialize, eat, drink, and be merry. I, unfortunately, could not get quite as merry as the alcohol consuming individuals, but I did help myself to Shirley Temples and Sprite w/ Lychees in margarita glasses. Next we headed to the main dining room, where we had dinner and danced the night away. I mainly just stood there and waved my arms around, since the in-laws were attentively watching Trung and I. Okay, below are some pics, but more can be found here.
Grace & Trung Grace's reading during the wedding Paula & Tai cutting their wedding cake Grace & MaggieTrung with his nephew, Ryan (Dat)
Monday morning we had brunch at the hotel with the bride and groom, and the rest of Trung's family. Afterwards, everyone went their separate ways. Some people went to Chinatown to buy groceries, while others hit the road. Trung and I went back to our hotel room to pack and wait for my junior high friend, Sarah, ----> to meet us up. When she came up to our room, I had Trung videotape her reaction to my belly as this was the first time for her to see it. She had visited us for my birthday back in February and has lived in NYC almost ever since. We walked around to find a place to eat and chat; we ended up eating salads at Cosi. Our visit was short and sweet since we needed to head off to the airport and Sarah had to go to work. Trung and I made our way to Tai's apartment; Paula and Tai took us to the airport from there. Our flight was delayed about 30 minutes so we didn't get home until 11:10 PM. Getting to sleep late and having to wake up early for my 8:20 AM doctor's appointment today was a toughy; I definitely have to catch up on my sleep tonight. So far this day has been alright despite being month end; I even had time to buy groceries during my lunch break. Anyhow, it was a great weekend and we wished that we could have stayed longer...well, maybe next time!
Friday, July 21, 2006
Friday, friday
Trung is heading to the Men's Wearhouse right now to try on and pick up his tuxedo for the wedding. After work, I'm picking up dinner to-go from Buca di Beppo and then heading straight home to prepare for our trip. I am pretty much finished packing, so we just need to get Trung ready. We also need to cut his hair and finished filtering through our wedding pics for the CDs. Hopefully we can get to bed early tonight, since our flight is at 7:25 AM, which means waking up at 5:30 AM at the latest. It's going to be a busy, but fun weekend. Gotta go brush my teeth now. Don't want to be getting gestational gingivitis. :P
Thursday, July 20, 2006
Work is sooooo slow!
Hmmm, let me explain the industry that I am in and then maybe you'll get my drift. I prepare legal documents for an attorney firm for Countrywide Home Loans, the retail side. My hours are typically 9-6, but if a loan has to go out that night, we (as in, Deanna, Dana (a summer intern), and I) have to stay and do it, even though we were just sitting there for hours beforehand doing nothing. Some days, especially during month end, are super busy when one loan comes right after another and we end up staying until 8 PM "drawing docs"; most days, it's sooooooo slow. AND the bad thing is, we never really know what kind of day or week it is going to be, so we just sit here and play internet games or surf the web until a loan comes our way. So I tried reading at work once, (read the entire Harry Potter series in one week), but that was a no-go. I know, I know, why was I reading at work? Well, because I would rather enjoy a good book and fill my mind with more intellectual things than mess up my eyes staring at the computer all day...so bite me! Oh wells, at least I've got the blog to take up some of my time nowadays.
Okay, enough about work...blah! Oh, wait, one more thing, you're probably wondering why I've stuck around for almost three years preparing documents if it's so dang boring. Well, I actually had a job lined up as a loan officer back in January and was going to give my two weeks notice on January 3rd. But then I found out that I was pregnant on January 1st after I had been boozing the night before (j/k), so Trung and I decided that it would be best to stick with the less stressful job rather than start a new, commission based, high stressed job. So, there you have it...stuck.
Now, enough about work! Last night I tried on some clothes in preparation for New York. It's not like I can just throw an outfit into the suitcase anymore and assume that I can fit into it, cause chances are, I can't. First outfit I tried out was the pink dress I was planning on wearing to the wedding, which Tiff let me borrow. I had tried it on several weeks back, but of course, who knew how it would fit now. For my more avid readers, you'll recall that I bought only a slip at the outlet, well, the slip was for this dress. The dress was a bit sheer when I first tried it on, but with the slip, well, let's just say I'm ready to party...big belly and all! :) I tried on a few more outfits, and of course they all had to be super cute because some family and friends are seeing me pregnant for the first time. :P Oh, and of course, I have to pack a couple shirts in different styles in the same color, just in case it's not appropriate to wear cause I'm pregnant. For some reason, older Asian people give me looks when I hear high heels or something strapless or with spaghetti straps. What's the deal? Do I look all that bad? Dudes, I've been swimming so my arms aren't THAT flabby or is it my tummy that is hideous? Sheesh! Anyhow, I'm bringing the extras for the sake of the in-laws. I want to be somewhat trendy, but also respectable in their eyes. We'll see what I end up wearing. Oh, we will see.
Wednesday, July 19, 2006
Da baby room
So, as I was looking at the completed baby room last night, I was really feeling the need to find those basket liners. So, today I called GS again with about fifteen different store locations (two of them were NY locations since I'll be there this weekend) to see if any had the liners in stock. The Babies "R" Us in Addition, TX had two left, but the GS guy said that the stores normally don't ship out of town. But hey, it was worth a try to just call and find out, right? Fortunately, a very sweet lady named Gurdie picked up and said that if the store had those liners, that since Paloma was discontinued on-line, she would ship them to me. Well, they still had them and she promised to ship them today or tomorrow. :) Okay, so TA-DA!
Here's Sasha! She just loves the baby room!
Well, I've got less than one month left of work and, boy, have I been counting the days. Every once in awhile I'll debate whether or not to just keep working until I go into labor, but let's just say, it's just a passing thought. I'm ready for a break even though I've only been working since September 2002, but it seems like forever. I've already set up a couple "Meet the Pediatrician" times, so that we can officially choose a Pediatrician. I have a family friend who is a Pediatrician in Austin and who I was basically going to go with, but Laurie was raving how great her Pediatrician was, so I thought I'd at least meet hers. Who will have the privilege to doctor my baby Lydia?
Tuesday, July 18, 2006
Tiff & Christian Weekend
Next mission...officially deciding on a diaper bag. As mentioned in an earlier post, I had not actually seen the Amy Michelle diaper bag in Lilac yet. After calling a few places, I found a place in Austin who had it in stock, so I figured I would at least check it out before I got the Ju Ju Be bag, which had been my latest "official" decision. Well, when Tiff saw the Ju Ju Be bag, she thought it was just "okay", so we went to look at the Amy Michelle bag. After texting pictures of the bag, of me holding the bag, and of another cute diaper bag Oi Oi to Trung (who was at yet another LAN party and was very excited about seeing the bag, let me tell ya...hee hee) AND debating for a good ten minutes, we finally decided on the Amy Michelle. YEAH! It also helped that I got a 20% discount since there was a little tape mark on it, which should easily come out with mild soap and a good scrub. :) Well, if not, I can return it for store credit and get the Oi Oi bag instead. Here are the bags again: (Amy Michelle, Oi Oi, Ju Ju Be)
So now, my life can go on. Okay, so we then headed to Barton Creek Mall, shopped a bit, and had dinner at the Bistro in Nordstroms. I know it's silly, but I went ahead and bought some clothes for Lydia for 12-18 months that matched my maternity clothes because that's when I expect to be pregnant with baby No. 2. We'll be so cute in our matching outfits :) And even if I'm not pregnant, I'll still wear the maternity clothes; they were just too super cute that I couldn't resist!
Sunday started off a bit slow. We had brunch at La Madeline, bought a few groceries at HEB, and then met up Sing (my brother-in-law) and Maggie at a Vietnamese restaurant for a quick, late lunch. Trung then took Christian back home while Tiff and I went to watch "The Devil Wears Prada". I found it cute and entertaining; Meryl Streep is quite the actress! After dropping by Wal-mart, we got home just in time for Trung and I to attend our final La Maze class. We learned about post-delivery, saw an Oprah special about babies, and received our graduation certificates. Now we are totally ready to have a baby...um, yeah, sure. :\ We've got a breastfeeding class next month that Trung is looking forward to attending. hee hee. So, we get home and Wendy and Nick (her fiancee) were still visiting with Tiff, so we invite them to join us for dinner. My cousin Grace and her husband, Edward, dropped by a few hours later to pick up some of the maternity clothes that I can no longer wear; she is expecting January 1st. It's kinda funny how the last few babies I've known have been born on holidays...Christian on Valentine's Day, my nephew Jason on Christmas Day, and now...my due date on Labor Day, and my cousin's due date on New Year's Day. Hmmm...
Tiff and Christian headed back home Monday late morning. It was great having them in town for the weekend. Come back and see us (and Lydia) soon!
Monday, July 17, 2006
Baby Shower (Take 2)
Friday, July 14, 2006
The Grace Lee Project
So yesterday, after yet another exciting day of "work", I headed home a little early to meet my friend, Wendy, and Trung to go watch the documentary. Good thing we left when we did or else we would have been late; traffic on I-35 was crazy! Well, then again, I've never been on that highway on a weekday before, so realistically, it probably wasn't that bad. Anyhow, when we got to the Alamo Drafthouse, I showed the "box office", um, more like "box person" my old debit card with a picture ID to get my discount. (I had called beforehand to confirm that any person with the name Grace Lee would be given a discount for The Grace Lee Project). Okay, so she looks at it, and was all like "oh, cool, you're the first Grace Lee I've seen come to this movie" and showed it to her co-worker/friend. Then she attempted to charge the tickets to the card when I informed her that it was no longer valid because my name changed. So I gave her a valid credit card and she charged the full price for the tickets. Um, ding-dong, the only reason I even acknowledged that I was a Grace Lee was to get the discount! Anyhow, she was all like "oops" and got a manager to fix the situation; the dude was kind enough to give me my ticket free of charge. :) Thanks, ding-dong, for the free ticket.
So, the documentary was pretty interesting. It was not necessarily about the Grace Lee's of the world, but more about the stereotype of Asian women: soft-spoken, petite, and smart. Needless to say, we Asian women (and Grace Lee's) are not all like that. Oh, and during the middle of the film was a scene with a list of Grace Lee's and their occupations AND it just so happened that my "Grace Shih-en Lee-------Loan Processor" was on there! I was a part of the documentary after all! :) Wendy and I also knew another "Grace Lee" from Houston who was actually in the film; she's the last one on the right on the banner. Okay, so afterwards as we were leaving, I saw a poster advertising the film and asked a worker if I could have it since it was the last day for the showing. He said "yes"...and now I have something to frame about moi! Um, I'll just add it to all the other things that have yet to be framed (diploma, wedding certificate, etc...)
Wednesday, July 12, 2006
Three days in a row!
Trung's HD camcorder came in this morning! No, we surely did not purchase it for the listed price, but it was up there. We are hoping that it was worth every penny though; we shall see soon enough. Once we mess around with it a bit, maybe we'll try to download a video of the baby kicking in my belly or something. We might get lucky and catch an elbow moving across my side. Oh oh, or something like this pic would be really neat! We may not get any good action until just a few weeks before my due date because the baby will be more developed and will run out of room in my uterus, thus more visible limbs can be seen. Well, at least that's what I've been told. My belly kinda looks like the one in the picture too, though my belly button has not completely popped and the line under the belly button is darker, um, like you really wanted to know. :P
Tuesday, July 11, 2006
Joel and New York
This morning I had a doctor's appointment and found out that my doctor is 21 weeks pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl. Nice! Talk about knocking out two birds with one stone...getting one of each gender with one pregnancy. So, this puts her at around 29 weeks when I deliver, so there's a good chance that even though she may be available, someone else will be delivering me. It won't matter when the time comes, but at least it's good to know. And she said that everyone in her practice uses C-section as a last resort...whew! My brother-in-law is getting married in NYC on the 23rd, and even though we had already purchased plane tickets, we were never really sure if I would be okay to travel. Well, it seems that we are good to go! :) New York, here we come!
Oh, for those who were wondering what that big ole bandage was for on my right elbow from my baby shower pics...well, you get a bit clumsy when you're pregnant, not to mention absent-minded. I was putting brownies in a hot oven when I dropped the pan and burned my arm on the oven door. So, I put Neosporin and a bandage on the wound, but apparently the bandage was a bit too small cause when I pulled it off, some skin came off with it. Ouch, right? Yeah, so I've been patiently waiting for it to heal though I don't think swimming helps speed up the process very much. Well, at least my brownies came out yummy.
Monday, July 10, 2006
Weekend wonders
On Sunday, we mowed, edged, and weeded the front lawn; watched the World Cup; and went to La Maze class. First off, the lawn has these terrible weeds that we cannot seem to get rid of. Supposedly, once the lawn gets stronger, they will disappear, but it sucks having them there in the meantime. Second, the World Cup...I honestly believe that Zidane of France being kicked out lost the game for the French. Not only did him leaving discourage the players a bit, but his penalty kick would surely have gone in. Okay, so this is coming from someone who watched only the final game...but to each his own. And finally, La Maze, where we thought we would be learning a bunch of breathing techniques, but did not really. We learned, instead, yesterday about Cesarian Sections and yeah, I'm trying to avoid that at all costs. I'll lunge, squat, do whatever I can to have that baby naturally. Ain't nobody going to be cutting me open. :P
Friday, July 07, 2006
Another Week
No big plans for the weekend, just maybe watching "Pirates of the Carribean" (2) cause Orlando Bloom is a hottie and fixing up the baby room a bit. I'll probably also drop by Babies "R" Us to update my registry in preparation for the baby shower next Friday. Um, that's about it. Oh, oh, I read on-line that at 30 weeks pregnant, the baby is about 16 inches long and weighs about 3 pounds, cool, huh? :P
Wednesday, July 05, 2006
Born on the Fourth of July
Yesterday, Trung and I headed out to San Marcos outlet mall to check out diaper bags, bedside lamps, and just to hang out. We stopped by USA baby on the way to examine the Amy Michelle bag that I had bidded on on ebay. The store only had the bag in olive, and it was bigger than I thought it would be. Trung personally liked a Ju Ju Be diaper bag, but I can't get over the "boyish" colors. It was less expensive than the Amy Michelle bag and just as useful, but we're having a girl, ya know? Anyhow, we still had the outlet to find a diaper bag, right?. Um, not so much...we went to Coach and Kate Spade and either they were sold out of the bag we were interested in or one of us did not like the design. Okay, so this is what (I think) I have decided to do...I am going to purchase the Amy Michelle bag on ebags.com (who uped the price another $10) and if we don't like the color or what not, the return fee is only $4.99 and I'll get the Ju Ju Be one instead. 'nuff said.
We also had no real luck with finding a pair of bedside lamps. Too big, too small, too tall, too short...whatever, the outlet was not good to us. Trung ended up buying some socks at GAP and I bought a slip for the pink dress I am wearing to brother-in-law Tai's wedding in a few weeks. We headed back home to rest up a bit before going to Pottery Barn in the Arborteum to give lamp searching one last go for the day. We actually did find some that we liked, and for a reasonable price. YEAH!! Afterwards, we went to my co-worker Laurie's house for some BBQ. They had burgers, brisket, and turkey legs...yum yum. We headed off around dusk, bought some groceries at HEB, and headed home, but not before seeing some fireworks go off on the way. We set up our lamps and called it a night. Nothing eventful, just another day in the life of Trung and Grace.
And work is not any better. It is sooooo slooooow. We had a new girl start today, the daughter of the VP of our Countrywide branch, and it doesn't look that good that we're just surfing the web. Oh wells, I've only got another six weeks and I'm outtie. Plus, she seems cool enough that she won't tattle to Daddy. It's all good.
Monday, July 03, 2006
One baby shower down, one more to go
While we ate, Cora had some games prepared...first, everyone cut a strand of ribbon based on how big they thought I was (around the biggest part of the belly); second, six volunteers tasted unlabeled baby food and had to guess what was in it; and third, six volunteers had to finish the water from their baby bottle as pictured below.They were all very fun and entertaining games...good job, Cora! After lunch, Trung and I opened all of "our" gifts, though I already knew what most of them were going to be since I check my registry everyday. What? I can't help that I'm bored at work and need something to do. :P Yeah! The shower was fun, let's doing it again!
Sunday was what Trung called "the boringest day ever". After sitting through my Dad's sermon in Chinese, which he doesn't understand, he drove two and a half hours back to Austin, and then spent another two and a half hours in La Maze class. Aw, poor Trung...look on the bright side, at least that day is over. AND there are only two classes left. *muah* :)